I was having a lovely phone conversation with a new business contact.
At the end of our conversation, the man suggested that we meet for lunch and I agreed.
later I played with the possibility of the lunch being more than business and with the idea of being open to a second meeting. I soon came to know that a romantic relationship did not serve me at the moment.
and at the lunch the man proved so totally not to be a date possibility for me.
Later I wondered which had come first, me deciding that I wanted more time with myself before I have a romantic relationship and the universe conspired to ensure that I would not even be tempted to backtrack on my choice by making the man unsuitable.
Or, had part of my energy field checked out the energy field of the man and of me and so helped set the circumstances for the non-appeal.
I hear Or both.