Who did I run into on the sidewalk, but an ex-partner who I felt had deceived and betrayed me. As we started talking, it felt like my head was split into a front part and a back part. The back part was replaying my litany of old complaints and accusations. Meanwhile the front part was having a pleasant conversation even genuinely extending some thanks for things I had learned during our relationship. As I said Goodbye and began walking away, I could feel that I was releasing not only my sense of hurt and betrayal but also the energy of my previous attraction to this man.
A few days after this encounter, I was sitting on a bench at the beach when a man approached and asked if he could join me. We then proceeded to have a most amazing conversation. And part of what I found so amazing about the conversation was that while one part of me knew that the guy was telling me “lies” and seemed to know what things to talk about to pique my interest, another part of me was resonating with the energy that he was putting out.
Over the next month this resonance within me surfaced each time I saw the man, though I never spoke with him again. After that month, I would see him and find it almost laughable that I had ever resonated with him. What I have come to believe is that he picked up on the energy that I was releasing and that’s the energy in which we resonated with each other.
And I considered how previously when I’ve chosen to release something I expected that the release would be immediate. So, when I found myself resonating with the next man, house, or job, I thought that I was resonating from a new energy within myself. But maybe when we are releasing an energy, we are highly susceptible to attracting a similar energy situation to the one we are releasing and we need to be vigilant of the situations we attract until the released energy has totally cleared our energy field.